A Thriving Life

Wow!  Another 6 week session done.  And it’s a little like my Bible Studies, even if I have read it before, I find something different.  It is a blessing to go through this each time with a group that means so much to me and supports each other all the way.

Now, as we have moved through “Living the Lifestyle”, we will spend a little time on food again.  What,  where, and why.  Think about that for a minute.  What are you eating, where are you eating it (sitting at the table or in front of the TV?) and, this is important, WHY?  Is it because you are hungry or is it because you are bored, sad, mad or just because everyone else is?

This is when we take those five essentials and mesh them all together.  We use that Faith and Focus,   and combine it with our Food, Fitness and Friends to PURPOSELY eat to honor God and be good stewards of His temple (our bodies), to GROW in His word and to be an example by implementing a healthy lifestyle.  We are not perfect.  We still make mistakes and that is ok.  We know now that we can make that u-turn and get back on track.  We have also learned that we make choices.  Some good and some not so good, but I have found that the poor choices don’t happen as often.

So, where are you in your life?  Is it abundant and thriving or are you just… sick and tired of being sick and tired?  What can you change to make it more satisfying and abundant?  Where do you place your faith and trust?  If you need to make a change, don’t let it overwhelm you.  Determine what the most important thing that you can start with is.  Then – take one step at a time to a better life.

Pray Unceasingly!

In His light,

Lois

A Thriving Life

The Daniel Plan

These are the proverbs of Solomon…Their purpose is to teach people to live disciplined and successful lives, to help them do what is right, just, and fair. —Proverbs 1:1, 3 NLT

Discipline is about creating habits. We need to create small habits in our lives that together build up into big results. These habits might be sleeping a bit more, moving our bodies, calming our minds, eating a little differently, adding a few new foods that are positive, refocusing our thoughts and replacing them with God’s Word—any habits like these will day by day shift us into a profound capacity for self-care and healing. The discipline of those small habits will add up to a thriving life.

One of the most fruitful habits we can form in the areas of food and fitness is to add joy to the way we move and the way we eat.

When we experience movement as joy, we celebrate the fact that our bodies can move in a particular way. Movement becomes an offering of our bodies to the God who made them able to move in so many ways.

Likewise, taking joy in trying a new food lets us celebrate the abundance God has created. We can look forward each day to the new pleasures God has in store for us.

Food for Thought: Small habits lead to ever greater enjoyment of the life God has blessed us with.

 

Because you’re my friend.

MY OATH TO YOU…

 When you are sad…..I will dry your tears.

When you are scared….I will comfort your fears..

When you are worried…..I will give you hope.

When you are confused……I will help you cope.

And when you are lost…And can’t see the light,

I shall be your beacon….Shining ever so bright.

This is my oath…..I pledge till the end.

Why you may ask?…….

Because you’re my friend.

Author Unknown

I have known many of you for at least a few years.  Some of you have seen me at my lowest point and have remained by my side.  Others, I have no doubt would be at my side if I needed them.  By the same token,  if you need me, I will be there for you in whatever capacity I can.  Some of you, I see more often than others, but whether I see you daily or once a year, if you are getting this email, I consider you a friend.

So, what does that mean?  I know there are many definitions of friendship, but to me I think it means loving unconditionally (just like scripture calls for) and through this love knowing you support each other.  You can talk freely and know you won’t be judged and confidentiality is never questioned.  A friend will hold you accountable, and sometimes that is really hard.  If there is no judgement in friendship, then that accountability  should be coming from  nothing but love.  A couple of things we count on in class is no judgement and confidentiality.  We are working on a healthy lifestyle and trust.

“When you have friends to go with you on the journey toward better health, you are more likely to succeed.  Life change happens in small groups.  “By creating a culture of both love and accountability, our church has seen many people revolutionize their lives, not only in the physical realm, but in their spiritual and mental lives as well.”  Pastor Steve Willis – First Baptist Church Kenova, West Virginia.

TDP – 40 Days to A Healthier Life says this : “Our social circles influence our health even more than our DNA.  We are more likely to be overweight if our friends are, even if our parents are not.  At the same time, we are more likely to exercise and eat healthy food, to not smoke or overeat, if our friend practice healthy habits.  If they’re sick, we’re more likely to be sick.  If our friends have healthy habits, then we probably will.  this means your friends and family may determine how successful you are with The Daniel Plan.  If they’re healthy, you’re more likely to be healthy.  If they are focused on their goals with a positive attitude, you will be too.  If they are living their faith, you will have built-in support.”

It goes on to say “You are not just receiving influence; you are an influencer as well.  If you develop and keep healthy habits, your friends and family are more likely to develop them.  Habits are contagious, which means you can have significant effect on those around you.  But that may not happen overnight.”

There is quite a challenge in those words.  We are not only responsible for our own actions, but an influence on others!  I am not saying we are totally accountable for the actions of our friends, but what a blessing when we can have a positive influence on them and maybe even help them take positive steps to improve their lives too!

I am not perfect.  And neither are you.  BUT our Lord and Savior knows that.  We do have the ability though to try harder every day to be more Christlike, and that includes honoring Him with our bodies, souls and minds.

“So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other.  Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.  Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”  John 13:34-35 NLY

Pray Unceasingly!

In His light,

Lois

Seeing Clearly

You know, sometimes the only way I can be honest with myself and to pull myself up by my bootstraps and move on, is to be honest and open with you and our Thursday group.  This group is my rock, my cheering squad, and sometimes the only motivation I can scrounge up on a particular day.  Sometimes, I get depressed, uninspired and really just feel like chucking it all.   Anyone else ever feel like that?

 It’s times like that when I really have to FOCUS.  It is so easy to just look at the negatives and totally ignore all the positives.  I believe we deal with spiritual warfare continuously and there is nothing Satan would like better than to pull us all down spiritually, emotionally and physically!  The Daniel Plan says our actions follow our thoughts.  So, if our thoughts are negative and hopeless, where does that take our actions?

 We need to focus on the positive.  I began this plan with the idea of getting healthier.  I have accomplished that.  I can do pretty well everything that I want to do.  The doctor is happy with my journey.  I need to stop focusing on my self-image and instead focus on how God sees me.

 It is where we allow our minds to take us.  Focus on where our God wants us to be and NOT where the enemy wants us to be.

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 

Seeing Clearly

The Daniel Plan

 Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are healthy, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are unhealthy, your body also is full of darkness. —Luke 11:34 NIV

When Jesus speaks here about our eyes, he isn’t talking about physical eyesight, whether we need contact lenses or cataract surgery. He’s talking about the eyes of our minds, what we focus on.

For each one of us, our minds create a pair of glasses through which we see the world. If those glasses are good, then we see things clearly. If they’re bad, we see everything in a distorted way.

So in order to have a healthy life, we need to attend to the direction of our thoughts. Where do our minds go automatically?

Pastor Rick says, “The battle starts not in your belly; it starts in your brain.”

Consider paying attention throughout the day to where your mind goes. When you think about food or fitness or the goals you’re setting for your life, how do you think about them?

Do you see them through a negative filter, or do you have – eyes that help you see things as they really are?

Food for Thought: If the eyes of your mind are healthy, your whole body and mind will be full of light, and you’ll be able to see everything in your world clearly.

A Stronger You!

Last Thursday was our DVD Fitness day.  That isn’t nearly as scary as it sounds.  You don’t have to go out tomorrow and run a marathon, you never have to run a marathon!  You don’t even have to join a gym!  All you have to really do is find an activity that you love to do.  Maybe I should clarify… sitting in a chair playing cards or watching TV doesn’t qualify as a fitness activity.  There are activities that pretty well anyone can do though.  I love to walk.  I don’t have a great walking place and I love the treadmill, so I did join a gym.  I also love water aerobics and upper body strengthening so the gym is a perfect solution for me.

 There are SO many opportunities for fitness in our area.  There are golf courses practically on every corner.  There’s this game called pickleball that I know very little about, but is very popular around here.  There are pools galore; think laps, water aerobics or water walking.  We have some really beautiful scenery around here, take a walk.  If around the block is all you can do, then walk around the block.  Work towards two blocks, then more.  If you are limited in movement, there are many chair exercises that you can do.  My point is, there are very few of us that can’t do something!

 Just a few of the benefits of exercise are decreased pain, sharper minds, higher metabolism, better sleep, stronger cardiovascular system and on and on and on!

 It is important to assess your health and your capabilities.  Talk to your doctor before starting a strenuous new program.  I have learned that I have boundaries in some activities.  If I do something that I shouldn’t, or if I overdo on certain activities, I create pain.  Learn your boundaries!

 Exercise is something I have come to love.  So, find something YOU love and get moving!

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

P.S.  I want to thank all of you again for the support and encouragement you give me.  You will never understand how very much it means to me!

  

A Stronger You!

Sean Foy, MA

  “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.” Ephesians 6:10

 What’s the “one thing” that you can do today that is guaranteed to jump start your day and build STRONGER faith, healthier and more nurturing food choices, consistent fitness, sharper mental focus and deeper relationships? Give up? It’s training.

 In his book, The Life You’ve Always Wanted, bestselling author John Ortberg uses a sports metaphor to explain a tried and true method to maximizing your daily motivation and empowering you to become STRONGER in body, mind and soul every day!

 Ortberg says, “Suppose you woke up tomorrow morning and decided to run a marathon. You put on some running shoes, don the right apparel, and head out the door to begin your 26.2 mile run. Could you do it? What if you tried hard? Really, really hard? If you gave it the ole’ 110%? The obvious answer is, for most of us would be no, of course not. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t simply head out the door and run 26 miles. If I want to run a marathon, I’m going to have to train for it. Effort alone won’t cut it.” Ortberg goes on. “Too often, we “try to do better” in an area of life. The problem is that trying won’t get us any closer to our goals. Only training will do that. If you want to run a marathon (26.2 miles), “trying” will not get you there. If you woke up every morning and tried to run 26.2 miles, you’d fail at it every time you tried. However, if you woke up each morning and trained to run a marathon by following an exercise program, a running schedule, and a recovery schedule, almost anyone will have the ability to successfully complete a marathon. That’s the difference between training and trying.

 I know when it comes to certain aspects of my life I usually just “try”. Unfortunately, most of us simply try, not train. The answer isn’t to try again. The answer is to train for what you want. Training requires a plan of action. Training requires commitment to the plan. Training requires a shift in our mindset. Training requires accountability. Training requires support and encouragement. If you really want what you say you want, train – don’t try.”

 Daniel’s Example:

Daniel’s strength is apparent throughout scripture. His unwavering faith, devotion, discipline, dedication and desire to follow God no matter the cost puts him in the hall of faith for sure. Scripture tells us Daniel designed his life, to be dependent upon God for everything-his food, his fitness, his friends, his focus, his faith and ultimately his “training regime” was given to God as an offering making him supernaturally spiritually strong. But we forget Daniel was human, as he experienced similar challenges and emotions we all experience on this road of faith. Daniel understood his weaknesses and inadequacies-which drew him closer to God. Praying at least three times a day was a good example of how much Daniel relied upon God for his strength. Likewise, we are strongest when we rely not on ourselves, but upon God to help us in all areas of our lives. We are STRONGER when we can begin and live out our day as an offering to God.

 8 Minutes o a S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R. You:

Here’s a simple form of “training” you can apply first thing in the morning (or if you’d like also midday and at night) to help you become S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R in all aspects of your life. This training works and has been inspired by the life of Daniel, multiple research studies and authors; (Hal Elrod, Jeff Olson, Gary Keller, Martin Seligman, Dallas Willard and John Ortberg). To make the most of this “training” you’ll need a journal or notebook to write down your thoughts, prayers, progress and goals.

  You can follow this 8-minute approach or modify the timing to meet your specific needs.
Sacred Time (Minute 1): Take one minute (or more if you’d like) to share your heart in prayer with God. In your journal, make note of a simple one-sentence prayer for the day. I personally have found this time a great way to get ready for the day and create some “meaningful margin” and space before the day gets going. Use this time to do some deep breathing and relax your body, mind and spirit.

Thankfulness (Minute 2): Researcher Martin Seligman discovered people who are grateful are happier, healthier and more fulfilled. Seligman and researchers discovered writing down three things you are most thankful for and why can dramatically alter your happiness and life. Seligman and researchers recommend writing down just three things that you are most thankful for and why today. Take a minute to be thankful for all aspects of your life. Begin to list three things you are thankful for as you consider your health, faith, family, friends, food, fitness, shelter, work….go through your day and imagine all you’ll have to be thankful for today.

Read (Minute 3): I’ve discovered by reading even just a few scriptures (e.g. a Proverb, Psalm or Daniel Plan Devotional) can have a profound impact upon my thinking, heart and day. Take a moment to read even just one-minute of God’s Word and watch what happens!

One Thing (Minute 4): Next, ask yourself two questions:  ”If I could change ONE THING in my life, what would be my ONE THING today?”  Next, ask, “Lord, what’s the ONE THING you’d like me to accomplish today?” Write your thoughts down in your journal.

Notes (Minute 5): For as long as I can remember, I’ve kept a journal and written down notes about my hopes, prayers and thoughts for the day. Keeping “Notes” about what I am learning, how I am growing, what I am planning to do with this day is my way of observing what I intend to do today before the day begins. It’s a powerful way to begin your morning-making a profession and a commitment you can read later in the evening!

Goals: (Minute 6): Detail your specific goals for the day related to your faith, food, fitness, focus and friends. For example, you can quickly detail your goals using the SMART goals approach, making all goals:

Specific-target a specific area of improvement today (e.g. fitness)

Measurable-write down quantity and or duration

Achievable-Set goals you believe you can achieve

Relevant-Create goals that are relevant to your “One Thing” and Objectives for the day

Time based-specify when the results will be achieved & shared

Exercise: (Minute 7): Utilize this next minute to perform a “visual” exercise. Elite athletes for years have benefited from “practicing inside their head before they hit the field”. It turns out that the athletes who picture themselves finishing first are more likely to do it. You can do the same. Take the next minute to close your eyes and breathe deeply. Take a moment to picture yourself going throughout your day in your mind in a positive and STRONGER way. See if you can utilize all of your senses. What do you see? What do you smell? What do you hear? What do you feel? Picture yourself a STRONGER you, performing at your optimal best.

Reflect: (Minute 8) Take your last minute, close your eyes and begin to breathe deeply. As you are breathing deeply, reflect upon your experience and all you have planned for the day. Make note of anything you may like to change.  Say a prayer and ask God to guide and lead you this day. Later in the day and or evening take a moment to reflect upon and look over your progress for the day.

If you’d like to receive a FREE “8 Minutes to a S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R. You” Video and 21 Day Journal, go to http://www.strongeruacademy.com/

21-Day S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R. YOU  Experiment:

I’d like to challenge you to perform your very own 21-Day S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R. YOU Experiment to see if this approach will work for you. Test it. Challenge it. Be skeptical-but I encourage you to give it a fair test and I promise you-if you practice this approach for just 21 days-you’ll see dramatic changes in your life!

Before you begin. I’d encourage you to take a moment and write down on a piece of paper a “word” that describes what your expectations may be before you begin your 21-Day S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R. YOU Experiment. Take a picture of yourself with your “word” and send it in to us.

At the end of your 21-Day S.T.R.O.N.G.E.R. YOU Experiment write down on a piece of paper what your experience and results may be with a “word”. Take an “after” picture of yourself with your word and see if your 21-Day experiment moves you that much closer to realizing a STRONGER YOU!

Here’s to a STRONGER YOU!
All the best,
Coach Sean Foy

Sean Foy, is an internationally renowned authority on fitness, weight management, corporate wellness and wellbeing.  Sean is the founder and President of Personal Wellness Corporation and the co-creator of the Wellness Councils of America (WELCOA) “On The Move Initiative” http://onthemove.welcoa.org
Sean is also an award wining fitness author and the coauthor of the New York Times #1 bestseller, “The Daniel Plan”. For more information about Sean and “21 Day Wellbeing Workouts and Experiments” go to: www.strongeruacademy.com

10 Ways to Ditch Your Cravings!

Happy, Healthy Monday!

It is actually Sunday evening as I write this.  We are listening to the continuing weather alerts and watching it out the door.  I am so thankful that we have a warm, safe home to wait it out in.  Plenty of flashlights, batteries and FOOD if needed.

 There’s that word again.  You know, the one we can’t escape and don’t want to!  Food gives pleasure, comfort and satisfaction.  What if it becomes more though?  Sometimes, it can become an obsession.  It can become the only thing we think of and crave.

 I read once (I don’t know if this was substantiated or not) that when you have an intense craving for a food, that chances are very high that you actually have an allergy to that food.    I just found that very interesting, knowing how intense some of those cravings can be in some of my friends.

 I really don’t experience too many cravings anymore, I guess because I have eaten clean for a good while.  I am fully aware of two triggers for me though that I have to be aware of.  A tortilla chip and salsa is a little like the old Lay’s potato chip commercial – bet you can’t eat just one and the second is cheese.  I adore almost any kind.  For now, I just know I need to avoid them.

 It is so good to see a gradual move towards healthier options.  Both in the grocery stores and in restaurants.  If you are fortunate enough to have farmer’s markets nearby, take advantage of them!  If not, check in your grocery stores.  If they don’t have healthy options, speak to the manager and see if they would add some.  If you go out to eat, don’t be shy.  Ask them for what you want.  Most places are more than happy to accommodate as much as possible.

 Just keep on keeping on.  Do what you can and thank God we have the ability to do what we can.  God bless and good health!

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 

10 Ways to Ditch Your Cravings!

Mark Hyman, MD

 According to a recent article in the New York Times, “Food Corporations Turn to Chefs in a Quest for Healthy Flavor,” Big Food companies like PepsiCo, Kellogg’s, and even fast food giants like Taco Bell, are changing their ways in response to the increasing public demand for healthier food options. To improve their image as healthy food manufacturers, Big Food corporations have called upon top chefs to help them create healthy menu makeovers, infusing real, fresh, whole food into old recipe favorites.

Why is this happening now? Intense pressure brought on by politicians and their constituents (you and me!) has given these food manufacturers no choice but to respond to the public outcry for healthier food. It’s no longer enough for these companies to earn a profit by selling food that tastes good.

People are beginning to use the power of the pocketbook to show these companies that the food they sell must also be nutritious. That’s because people everywhere are waking up. They are beginning to see the dangers of genetically modified ingredients and all the sugar, salt, and fats hidden in our food supply.

From fancy restaurants to fast food chains, chefs are catching on that people want their food to make them feel good, not just while they are eating it but hours, days, and years afterward.

Really, this news shouldn’t make the headlines. This is common sense! Paying for food that makes us sick is as crazy as shooting ourselves in the foot. It just doesn’t make sense.
Big Food is finally getting the message and getting on board.

But remember, no processed or fast food option will ever be better than a healthy home-cooked meal. The best way to ensure you are eating the highest quality, most nutritious food possible is to prepare your own food in your own kitchen. We are all chefs. You don’t have to be trained at Le Cordon Bleu to know your way around a kitchen. You just need a little knowledge, some imagination, and a sense of adventure.

A desire for real food is a fundamental part of our basic biological blueprint. Given the chance, our taste receptors will naturally gravitate toward the inherent sweetness found in vegetables, fruits, and even nuts and seeds.

So, how do you reprogram your taste buds to ditch the cravings for sugar, salt, and fats? You can start by eating real, fresh, whole foods. Avoid fake, commercialized foods that come in convenience packages or are made in a lab.

Here are 10 more tips to get you excited about ditching the sugar, salt, and fats:

Sauté or roast your veggies to bring out their natural sweetness. Properly searing your chicken or meat brings out the inherent sweetness by way of the Maillard reaction. This is a fancy name for what happens when you create that nice, brown crust on your meat. Want more cooking tips like this? Check out The Blood Sugar Solution Cookbook!

 Play with herbs like cilantro, parsley, dill, basil, and oregano to add flavor and phytonutrients! Finish a meal by adding fresh herbs before plating or serving. This last-minute addition kicks the flavor up a notch!

 Healthy fats found in avocado, coconut, and tahini not only increase the flavor of your meal, they also add that creamy, luscious texture found in many rich foods. See for yourself just how healthy and tasty desserts can be by trying this amazing Avocado Gelato!

 Try creating a savory, umami (Japanese for “delicious”) flavor. Add moderate amounts of tamari, umeboshi plum paste, balsamic vinegar, tomato paste, dried mushroom, or sea vegetables to your next stew, soup, sauce, or stir-fry.

 Cinnamon, allspice, nutmeg, clove, ginger, and even cayenne or chipotle pepper powder are all extremely flavorful additions to a meal. Spices like these excite your taste buds and grab your attention. This is helpful, because, as studies show, when we are focused on actually tasting our food rather than mindlessly gobbling it up, we actually need less food to feel satisfied.

 Befriend some kitchen must-haves like real vanilla extract or vanilla bean or coconut butter. Or use common, every-day foods like lemons in some creative ways. For example, use lemon zest to add real zing to any meal!

 For the most flavor, eat seasonally and locally. Canned or packaged foods or foods that have traveled great distances in the back of a truck just can’t compare to the succulence of a fresh piece of locally grown fruit.

 Check your hydration. Digestion starts in your mouth with your saliva, which helps us taste all the magnificent flavor in food. If you are dehydrated and not producing enough saliva, you won’t really be able to enjoy your food.

 Check your medications. Believe it or not, most medications interfere with the body’s ability to taste and smell. Some of them can even create an unpleasant metallic taste in the mouth. Wondering how you might decrease the number of pills you take? Learn more about functional medicine.

 Got nutrition? Nutrient deficiency is an important cause of improper taste perception. A lack of certain vitamins and minerals can markedly impair your ability to smell and taste food. Most Americans have several nutrient deficiencies, but there is one in particular that can especially keep you from enjoying your next meal: zinc. Try adding foods like oysters, pecans, sunflower seeds, and lentils to increase your daily intake of this important mineral. Try the recipe for my Red Lentil Soup from The Daniel Plan Cookbook. If you are deficient, you might also need to take a zinc supplement. Work with one of my nutrition coaches to ensure your nutrition status is up to par.

For more ways to use your kitchen to take back your health, check out The Daniel Plan Cookbook. Get tips and tricks for making healthy and tasty meals. Learn what foods you should eat to boost your metabolism, balance your blood sugar, and lose weight.

U-Turns Allowed

Ahh… food.  It’s one of those things you can’t just quit cold turkey or even gradually.  It is necessary and it tastes good.  Unfortunately, what some of it does to your body isn’t always good.    Food was created by God to sustain us.  It keeps us satisfied and nourished.  Meanwhile, man has taken what God gave us, clean meats of all kinds, wonderful vegetables and fruits, and turned it into all sorts of things that no longer satisfy and no longer nourish.

 One of the first and most important things you can do, is stop thinking DIET.  Start thinking lifestyle.  A lifestyle that will energize you and turn around SO many health problems!  And you don’t have to suffer doing it!  You need a genuine desire to change.  You can’t do it because someone said you should or because everyone else is.  You need to WANT to see a change in your life.  Maybe you want to get on the floor and play  with your kids or grandkids.  Maybe you want to be there at there wedding.  Or maybe you just want to be able to live whatever time God has given you on this earth well.  Whatever the motivation is, you have to want it bad enough to change your habits for the better.

 Before you can change your body, you have to change your mind.  If you think you can’t do that, then focus on the One who can help you.  I know I can’t do it alone.

 I have found that there are very few places that I can’t go and stay pretty much on track.  You don’t have to be 100% perfect all the time.  With The Daniel Plan, we shoot for 90/10.  And if you mess up, just make a U-turn and start again.

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 

U-Turns Allowed

The Daniel Plan

 On The Daniel Plan you cannot fail—because you start it as a 40-day journey and then get to see changes gradually unfold over your lifetime. You get better … your momentum builds momentum. You may have a slipup, but you continue moving forward.

Setbacks and comebacks are part of the journey, and graciousness is woven through both.

There is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. That means God will never condemn you. He wants you to succeed! He’s walking with you every step of the way and is your ultimate source of inspiration and encouragement. When you make a mistake, just make a U-turn.

Do you have a GPS device on your phone or in your car? When you make a wrong turn, the GPS doesn’t call you an idiot. It just tells you where to make the next legal U-turn. If you pay attention to your mistakes, such as that you went too long between meals, didn’t sleep, or failed to plan, these mistakes can be your best teachers. Very soon you find yourself in a new place, where you have dramatically improved both your brain and your body.

God uses failure to educate us. Mistakes are simply learning experiences, and some things we learn only through failure. (So some of us are highly educated!)

Your setbacks can even reaffirm your faith. It may surprise you to know that admitting your hopelessness to God can be a statement of faith. King David said, “I believed in you, so I said, ‘I am deeply troubled, Lord.’ In my anxiety, I cried out to you” (Psalm 116:10-11 nlt).

David’s frankness actually reveals a deep faith: First, he believed in God. Second, he believed God would listen to his prayer. Third, he believed God would let him say how he felt and would still love him.

Failure can also be motivational. A lot of times we change, not when we see the light, but when we feel the heat. When you fail, it’s often an opportunity to take a different direction.

Regardless of your circumstances and how you feel, focus on who God is—his unchanging nature. Remind yourself what you know to be eternally true about God: He is good, he loves me, he is for me. He knows my struggles and my circumstances, and I know he has a good plan for my life.

Today’s Steps:

– Ask a buddy how he or she makes U-turns and what helps them get back on track.

– Journal about one setback, what you learned, and how you can make a U-turn and continue to make progress.

The First Step to Your Best Health: A Kitchen Makeover

Once again, we have begun.  Last Thursday, we covered “How It All Began” and an overview of the Essentials and covered the first main essential – Faith.

 Hebrews 11:1 says “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”  The Daniel Plan book tells us that “Faith is visualizing the future in advance.  It is seeing the future in the present.”  That says so much.

   Whether you began this journey in a desperate health situation, a preventative measure, just out of curiosity or because you looked at it as another Bible study, you can walk away with a new understanding of how what we put in our bodies, minds and hearts affects everything we do, think and say.  You also gain an understanding of how Faith, Food, Fitness, Focus and Friends all come together to accomplish amazing things for you!

 The best place to start a plan is at the beginning.  We need to set ourselves up for success, not failure.  I totally understand how difficult this can be when there is more than one person living in a home.  You need to get rid of the junk and replace it with better options.  Sometimes they are still not the best options, but better.  Ideally, you will have the support and cooperation of the rest of the family in getting healthier.  Ideally, you will ALL discover that healthy eating can be delicious and much more satisfying than the junk ever was.

 Are you sick and tired of feeling sick and tired?  Then let’s do this!

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 The First Step to Your Best Health: A Kitchen Makeover

Dr. Mark Hyman

 “Dr. Hyman, over and over I find myself making unhealthy choices,” a reader writes. “Even while I am at home, I reach for something that I know is going to make me feel like crap. When dinner time comes around, I get so overwhelmed and end up making pasta or pizza. Please help me make better decisions about what I put into my body.”

Well you are not alone, my friend! This is a challenge that so many of us deal with on a day to day basis, and the only way around it is to do a kitchen makeover. Bringing fresh energy and fresh food into the kitchen and purging it of all of the foods and items that make us sick and unhealthy is an important step to making better choices and overcoming food cravings and addictions.

The cure for what ails us — both in our bodies and in our nation — can be found in the kitchen. It is a place to rebuild community and connection, strengthen bonds with family and friends, teach life-giving skills to our children, and enrich and nourish our bodies and souls.

We need to break the addiction cycle and halt your cravings – likely the same cravings that have sabotaged your weight loss efforts in the past. Why not stack the odds in your favor by removing the items that have kept you trapped, sick and miserable? Or, to put that a better way: Why not set yourself up for optimal success by making your kitchen a happy, hopeful place filled only with vibrant, real, whole foods that will nourish your body and genuinely feed your soul?

If you make your kitchen a safe zone, with only foods that nourish rather than harm, then you will automatically make the right choices.  If you fill it with crap, you will eat crap, no matter how much willpower you have.

 How to Purge Your Kitchen

Here are my four easy-to-follow steps to start your purge:

Step 1:  Reclaim your kitchen by replacing anything that is questionable with real, fresh, whole foods without labels. A fresh avocado or a kiwi doesn’t come with a nutrition facts label or a bar code or an ingredient list. The questionable items are those that come in boxes, jars, cans and other packaging. In other words most convenience foods.  It’s important to first shift your focus away from the often misleading nutrition “facts” list (which is mostly designed and developed under huge food industry lobby efforts to confuse and confound your efforts to eat healthy) and instead rely on the ingredients list. When reading through the ingredients, look for items which you don’t recognize, can’t pronounce, are listed in Latin or aren’t items you would normally have in your cupboard. Beware of foods with health claims on the labels. These claims usually signal a marketing ploy to make you think they’re good for you when they’re really just healthy pretenders. Things like sports beverages, energy bars and even multigrain breads (which often contain high fructose corn syrup) fall into this category.

Step 2: Now, you’ll want to remove ALL of the junk. This includes any food which contains added sugar, refined and processed flours and all processed foods. Even seemingly safe foods like spices and seasonings can contain maltodextrin, autolyzed yeast extract and even high fructose corn syrup that have no place in a healthy kitchen.  Scrutinize everything!

Step 3: Remove all BAD FATS. The wrong fats can wreak serious metabolic havoc. Toss out any highly refined cooking oils such as corn and soy, fried foods you may have stored in your freezer and margarine or shortening. These products have dangerous trans fats that create inflammation and cause heart disease. Scour labels for the words “hydrogenated fat” (another phrase for trans fat), which has finally been declared not safe for consumption by the FDA.

Step 4: Throw out  food with artificial sweeteners of all kinds (aspartame, NutraSweet, Splenda, sucralose, and sugar alcohols — any word that ends with “ol,” like xylitol or sorbitol). Stevia may be better than aspartame but only whole plant extract, not Pure Via and Truvia brands, which are made by Pepsi and Coke and are chemical extracts of stevia. And when using whole plant extract stevia, use it sparingly. A new non-caloric sweetener that comes from monk fruit that is rich in antioxidants can also be used in small amounts.  But remember, any sweetener can cause you to be hungry, lower your metabolism, create gas and store belly fat.

Don’t just tuck all of these toxic foods away –  toss them into the garbage! We’re going to quickly and easily replace them with delicious, healthy alternatives that will leave you more than satisfied.

Stock Up On the Right Foods

Next, you’ll want to fill your fridge with plenty of beautiful vegetables, fruits, healthy proteins and fats. You’ll also want to keep plenty of healthy snacks around in case you ever run into a food emergency. Instead of reaching for sugary, processed snacks, you can reach for nourishing ones like nuts and seeds, dips and veggies, fresh fruit and more.

Step 1: Focus on non-starchy veggies. These are things like broccoli, kale, tomatoes, bok choy, peppers, asparagus, cauliflower and so much more! Eat as many as you like! Limit fruits because they increase your insulin levels. Berries are your best bet. When possible, choose organic, seasonal and local produce.

Step 2: Stock up on dry foods. These staples usually have a longer shelf life and include raw or lightly roasted nuts and seeds, legumes, quinoa, and gluten-free grains.

Step 3: Include herbs, spices and seasonings. You’ll want to have a range of pantry ingredients, including seasonings and spices, on hand. Buy organic when you can. Because you only use a little of some of these, they tend to last a long time so you get a lot of value from them. Among my favorites include extra-virgin olive oil, extra-virgin coconut butter, sea salt, black peppercorns, and seasonings and spices like oregano, cayenne pepper, garlic and more. Just read all of the labels to ensure the products don’t contain hidden sugar, gluten or other problematic additives.

Step 4: Keep your fridge and freezer stocked with protein. Check out the Environmental Working Group’s “Meat Eater’s Guide” to choose meat that’s good for you and good for the planet. Optimal protein choices include: boneless, skinless chicken and turkey breasts; ground chicken and turkey; grass-fed beef, lamb and bison; pastured omega-3 eggs; whole forms of non-GMO soy food like tofu, tempeh and gluten-free miso; and wild seafood like sardines, salmon, herring, flounder, clams and more. Avoid those fish that are high in mercury such as tuna, swordfish and Chilean sea bass.

Step 5: Get Inspired. It’s easy to just say, I’ll buy tons of veggies and some fruit and healthy meats and fats, but what are you going to do with all of that food? Well, my new book, Eat Fat, Get Thin Cookbook not only goes through a step-by-step guide of how to reclaim your kitchen, but it features over 175 mouth-watering recipes to help you get healthy and stay healthy. I’ve included breakfast dishes, smoothies, some vegan meals, plenty of options for lunch and dinner, and even desserts!

 Eating food that is good for you is not about feeling deprived. If you choose the right foods and the right recipes, you can reap the benefits of a healthy lifestyle without feeling denied.

 

God is With You Through Chronic Illness

Happy day after Christmas!  I pray that you all were able to enjoy family, friends and whatever else makes you happy.

 Our Christmas celebration began with calls to and from my sisters and brothers up north.  It continued with candlelight services at church on Saturday night, then with Sunday church service and sharing a wonderful meal with family that we love dearly.  We had our granddaughter home from college and our grandson home on leave from the Air Force, so it was an extra special day for us!  I thank God every day for our many blessings!

 There are so many who aren’t so fortunate.  Maybe there are no family members to share with. (You are ALWAYS welcome to share our Christmas if you don’t!)  You may have met unexpected circumstances that changed the outlook of your holiday, as a couple in our church family did when they were in an automobile accident on Christmas Eve.  Or, you may have had a change in health that changed your life, as you knew it.  We have seen friends dealing with cancer, strokes, heart issues and many other health situations.

 There is a common thread here that can pull all of these situations together.  In good and in trying times, God is waiting for us to call on Him.  I don’t know what His ultimate plan is and I’ve learned that I really don’t have to.  I still have to remind myself sometimes that HE is much more capable of handling any situation than I am and He really wants to!

  Sometimes, I still find myself asking “Why, God?”  Sometimes, when you are overcome with grief, pain or fear, you just can’t help but ask why.  I have no theological background to base this on, but I do believe that God wants us to reach out to Him.  I believe he wants us to cry out and share our deepest fears, hurts and questions with Him.  I believe He understands fully and wants us to turn to Him.  When I doubt that, I turn to the Psalms.  David cried out to God quite often.  My cries may not compare to David’s, but I believe they are still important to our Lord.

 Philippians 4:13 is well-known and has always been one of my favorites, but another one that I rely on frequently is Psalms 46:10.  Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”  Sometimes, I need to just sit and “be still” to really hear whatever God may be trying to tell me.

 What about you?  Is your world perfect?  Or just maybe there is something you are struggling with too.  If so, know God is with you, even when you can’t see His plan.  May He give you comfort in whatever you may be struggling with.

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

  

God is With You Through Chronic Illness

Daniel Plan

 What’s it like when you get the news that you have an incurable illness? Despite eating well and being fit, Saddleback’s Karate Ministry leader, Manny Johnston knew something was wrong. “Simple movements and tasks felt as though I was moving in quicksand,” he says.  “Along with the physical issues were a marked slowing of speech, stuttering, difficulty expressing my thoughts, and memory recall.” In 2014 came the diagnosis, Parkinson’s, for which there is no cure.

 “Karate training can be beneficial for people who suffer with Parkinson’s,” he said. “Karate develops the mind, body, and spirit, and it has also strengthened my walk with Christ. That walk has been the cornerstone of my daily experience to thrive in spite of the diagnosis.  If I had not received the grace of Christ, I don’t know how I would have dealt with this new challenge in my life,” he added.

 “Three times Paul pleaded with the Lord to take his affliction away from him. But Jesus said to him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is perfected in weakness.” Therefore, Paul exclaimed that he would boast all the more gladly in his weakness, so that the power of Christ may rest on him. Paul added, “That is why, for the sake of Christ, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinthians 12:8-10. “

 The Karate master experienced the same lesson saying, “I have learned not to depend on my own strength but to draw on the unlimited strength from Christ.”

 For others struggling with chronic illness, we encourage you to meditate on scripture. Philippians 4: 13 is a good one to start with: “I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me.”  Say it over and over every day.  It will give you the vigor you need to cope with what ails you, as Manny experienced.

 The Daniel Plan is also helpful.  Its emphasis on focus promotes the practice of using your brain and the exercise segment is essential to basic fitness. The Support Groups help one cope as well.

“Jesus wants us to love and help each other,” Manny confided.  “When your health is a daily battle, the Daniel Plan ministry can help support you on all fronts: faith, food, fitness, focus, and friends.”

“Mary Did You Know”

To my dear friends, who have stuck with me throughout this journey:

It’s Christmas… the season of love, joy, reflection and Christmas music!  I really love music that affects me and makes me feel a strong connection to the words.  Two songs that do this are “Mary Did You Know” for Christmas and another favorite, “He’s Alive” at Easter.

Have you ever sat down, closed your eyes and let the words of either of these songs just permeate your heart?  Mary, just a young girl, knew her baby boy was very special, but could she possibly have really understood that her baby was sent to save the world?  She knew she was chosen by God to give birth to this very special baby, but could she possibly have understood the magnitude of what was to come?  And the pain that would come with it?

As I read these lyrics, I am nearly overwhelmed.  What if, when you kissed your baby, you knew you kissed the face of God? That after giving so much in His short time, He would make the ultimate sacrifice?

He’s Alive” is really the natural progression from “Mary Did You Know”.   The Son of God was born, He died and He arose again.  It was the culmination of God’s plan.  And Mary saw it all. As the nails were pounded into His hands and feet, there is no doubt in my mind that she felt every blow.

If you have a few minutes, just sit down, close your eyes and listen to the words.  If you can’t listen, take a deep breath and read these lyrics and really let them sink in.  Imagine the magnitude of what took place and then put that together with the true celebration of Christmas.

Merry Christmas, God Bless you and Pray Unceasingly!

In His light,

Lois

Mary did you know that your baby boy will one day walk on water?
Mary did you know that your baby boy will save our sons and daughters?
Did you know that your baby boy has come to make you new?
This child that you’ve delivered, will soon deliver you

Mary did you know that your baby boy will give sight to a blind man?
Mary did you know that your baby boy will calm a storm with his hand?
Did you know that your baby boy has walked where angels trod?
And when you kiss your little baby, you have kissed the face of God

Mary did you know, Mary did you know, Mary did you know

The blind will see, the deaf will hear and the dead will live again
The lame will leap, the dumb will speak, the praises of the lamb

Mary did you know that your baby boy is Lord of all creation?
Mary did you know that your baby boy will one day rule the nations?
Did you know that your baby boy is heaven’s perfect Lamb?
This sleeping child you’re holding is the great I am

Mary did you know, Mary did you know, Mary did you know

“Mary Did You Know” Written by Mark Lowry, Music by Buddy Greene

10 Strategies to Stay on Track During the Holidays

Hello, my friends!

I should have printed this article and taken it on the cruise with us as a reminder!  Now I have to do a

u-turn and get back on track!    Too many choices all day, every day for a week.  This is a new week though and I WILL get back on track!

We are right in the middle of the biggest temptation and eating season of the year.  What will you choose to do and how will your choice repay you?  A diabetic may have a glucose spike and you may get very sick.  I may feel bloated and break out in fat!  Regardless of the short term effects, be very mindful of the long term ones.  The ones that sneak up on you after building up for days, weeks or even years before you notice.  The ones that can be very difficult or sometimes impossible to turn around.  The damage to our bodies can be slow, but deadly.

For the lucky few that can eat anything and everything they want to and it never have a negative effect on you, I pray that never changes.  For the rest of us, I pray for your strength and trust in Jesus for support because I know your frustration.  I also encourage you to search out delicious and healthy alternatives that are simple enough for you to keep them handy when that particular craving hits.

Get through the next three weeks and normalcy will return!

Meanwhile, God bless you all and give you strength and comfort through whatever you may be facing with each new day.

 

Pray unceasingly!

In His light,

Lois

10 Strategies to Stay on Track During the Holidays

“Dr. Hyman, I just started your Eat Fat, Get Thin plan, and I’m feeling great, but I have a lot of fear around my upcoming social schedule,” writes a Facebook reader. “How can I maintain my newfound health during the holidays? “

I get this all-to-common yet excellent question from folks as they confront their holiday eating fears.

Eating well is not about perfection. We are human, so perfection is impossible. A better approach involves honoring your body and knowing what works best for you and just as importantly, what doesn’t work.

If I go to a party and eat tortilla chips or sugar-laden treats, I’ll definitely feel the aftereffects. I’ll feel sick, tired and bloated. Obviously, that’s not how I want to spend my time or how I want to feel.

Just like anything in life, preparation is key to staying lean and healthy during the holidays. I’ve found these 10 strategies help my patients stay on track in even the toughest social situations.

Remember your goals. Think about the way you want to feel before you hit those holiday parties and dinners. If you want to feel great, you’re less likely to indulge in foods and activities that make you feel less than great. Set an intention for how you would like to feel after each meal and hold yourself accountable by sharing with a close friend or family member. Or write it down and post it on your bathroom mirror to read after the event. Sometimes treating yourself to sugary and other pleasure foods is exactly what the moment calls for; however, most of the time, you’ll feel better off if you don’t indulge in these foods containing the recreational drug I fear most!

Become the host. If you can, host your own party and take the opportunity to introduce your guests to the healthy foods you’ve been enjoying. Controlling food choices becomes easier when you have your own gathering.

Don’t deviate from the norm. If you know you’re going to attend a lavish party, begin your day as you would any other. Don’t skip meals to save calories or carbohydrates. Eat a protein- and healthy-fat-packed snack an hour before your holiday meal like celery sticks with nut butter or a protein shake. Protein and fat help cut cravings for sugar and processed carbs.

Start your holiday meal with smart food choices. Beginning with soup, fresh veggies or a salad and avoiding appetizers filled with refined flour and other unhealthy choices can prevent cravings. Look for the vegetable board or other healthy options as snacks or appetizers. Volunteering to bring something to every gathering you attend guarantees there’s a healthy choice.

Avoid or limit alcohol. Alcohol reduces your inhibitions and can lead you down a slippery slope of making bad choices. Most types of alcohol are also filled with sugar and empty calories. Instead, bring or ask for sparkling water with lemon or lime. Drink two glasses of water with lemon before a meal.

Stay active and people-focused rather than entirely dwelling on food.Plan an activity to look forward to after the meal like a group walk, visiting with other friends or family, a group game or playing with younger family members. Offering to clean up and help your host helps prevent overeating or reaching for dessert. I like to sit next to someone I find genuinely interesting and engage in conversation with them.

Practice mindfulness. Take five deep breaths before your meal and chew every bite slowly. Really focus on the flavors, colors and smells of your food. Try to put your fork down between bites, and breathe through your nose while you eat. Express gratitude with others before your meal. Halfway through your meal, I recommend putting your fork down and taking a pause. Take three deep breaths and assess your hunger on scale of 1 to 10. Ask yourself how much more you need to feel satisfied yet energized and comfortable.

Remember food can be medicine. Eat healthy and enjoy your time with loved ones. Take the time to enjoy healthy, wholesome meals with your friends and family and remember that you can heal your body and mind with each forkful of delicious food you enjoy.

Respond to pushers politely. Occasionally, you might have a food pusher, friend or relative ask you why you’re not indulging at a party. When this happens to me, I reply I’m here for the people, not the food. No one argues or feels insulted.

Don’t beat yourself up. If you do happen to slip up, leave guilt behind. Guilt is a toxic emotion that creates more damage. When things get out of control (which they do), simply make a gentle U-turn. Think of this as a GPS for the soul. Your GPS doesn’t yell at you, call you stupid or judge you for taking a wrong turn. In the sweetest voice imaginable, the GPS reminds you to take the next possible U-turn. If you indulge a little, that’s fine. Did you enjoy the process? How did you react to the food that you ate? Pay attention and move on by making a U-turn and getting back to the foods and activities that make you feel great.