Power in Weakness

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

As we look around us, in the grocery store, just running errands or even going to a meeting, what do we see?  Sometimes, I become so complacent, so focused on what I am doing or where I am going that I don’t see what’s going on all around me.  I am trying to make more of an effort to ask myself why the man in the deli department was so angry and rude.  Why the cashier acted like that was the last place on earth she wanted to be, or why the young mother was so impatient with her young children.  Maybe if I make more of an effort, I will learn the man in the deli just lost his wife to a long illness and is angry and hurting so much because he has no one to talk to, no one to just give him a hug and tell him they love him and God loves him.  Maybe the cashier’s mother has alzheimers disease and no longer recognizes her own child.  And maybe the young mother’s husband just walked out on her, leaving her with nothing.  Of course, this is no reason to be rude or mistreat those around you, but maybe, in your weakness, that’s all you can do.  I have, and probably you have, experienced some of those emotions.  It is only through God’s grace that we can keep walking forward and push through to the next stage of our lives.  It is only through KNOWING God’s grace that we can still smile and now that some tomorrow will be better and less painful.  Maybe not the next tomorrow, but it will come.   Meanwhile, do we just walk away and pretend we didn’t notice or do we offer a smile, a God bless you or a God loves you?  Maybe there will be no immediate response, but just maybe, you will be the only bright spot in their day.

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Pray Unceasingly!

In His light,

Lois

 Power in Weakness

Rick Warren

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.  2 Corinthians 12:9

Any process of change exposes our weaknesses. We want to make changes, but when we bump up against our weaknesses, we can get discouraged and think change is impossible. And it may be impossible—if we were on our own.

But we’re not on our own. God has given us his free gift of the Holy Spirit who lives in us and empowers us. We only need to ask, “Holy Spirit, please help me to accomplish this,” and he is there with us in power.

Don’t expect him to make the process effortless or smooth, because he wants your weaknesses to show off the fact that his power is accomplishing everything. So don’t demand perfection of yourself; aim for progress in little steps, and celebrate your weaknesses. When you are weak, God is strong. His grace truly is sufficient.

Separating Fat from Fiction: 10 Fat Facts You Need to Know

Happy Monday!  This is a fairly long article, but it is packed with good info!

 For the last 40-50 years, the powers that be have preached low fat, no fat, low carb, high carb, sugar free and just about every other false promise imaginable.  Not only are these deceiving, but some are just downright dangerous for us.  Not only that, but look at the results of these recommendations.  The obesity rate has increased and our health has failed.  The rate of diabetes and heart disease has increased.  The incidence of cancer and Alzheimer’s disease continues to grow and what we put into our bodies has a direct correlation to how our bodies react.  There are other factors of course.  Heredity and environmental exposure, along with a few other factors, but isn’t our health and welfare worth making the effort to protect ourselves as much as possible?

The Daniel Plan recommends lots of lean protein, healthy fats, vegetables and fruit.  If you are eating anything packaged, even meat, you should consistently read labels.  Basically, try to stick to five ingredients or less and nothing you can’t pronounce.  Let me give you a couple of examples.  These were shockers for me.  Go to your pantry, refrigerator or grocery store and research a couple of items.  First compare the ingredient list on the label of a container of low/no fat yogurt to a container of regular fat yogurt.  Now compare to plain Greek yogurt.  There’s a big difference.  Next, compare a package of shredded lowfat cheese to a block of regular cheese.  One last one, and this was a shocker to me.  Read the ingredient list on a box of “plain” salt.  A little bit of salt mixed with a whole lot of preservatives and chemicals.  These are the things our bodies are being bombarded with on a daily basis.

  It’s not likely that we will ever be perfect at this game of life, but with God’s direction and our own perseverance, we can have more energy and be healthier.  We can be better.

Separating Fat from Fiction: 10 Fat Facts You Need to Know

by Mark Hyman, MD

 “Everyone seems to be talking about fat these days. That fat somehow is good now and can help with weight loss and disease prevention.  How can that be true when for decades we all were told that fat was the bad guy?” asks this week’s house call. “What are its benefits? Are there any downsides to eating more fat?”

This question comes at the perfect time.  I have just finished writing my new book Eat Fat, Get Thin, hitting the bookstores on February 23, 2016. I wrote this book because almost everyone I know – doctors and patients and eaters alike are all confused about fat and still hold on to myths and misinformation that prevents them from taking advantage of the latest science to lose weight and get healthy. 

You’re likely familiar with many of them: Fat makes us fat, contributes to heart disease, leads to diabesity; saturated fat is bad; vegetable oils are good…I could go on, but I think you know what I’m talking about.

None of these beliefs about fat are true.  In my latest book, I combined the latest research with my several decades of empirical evidence working with patients to prove what I’ve long discovered: The right fats can help you become lean, healthy, and vibrant.

Fat is one of the body’s most basic building blocks. The average person is made up of between 15 and 30 percent fat! Yet for decades, we’ve unfairly demonized dietary fat, diligently followed a low-fat diet that almost always equates into a high-sugar and high-refined carb diet that contributes to insulin resistance, obesity, heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and numerous other problems.

Simply put: Sugar, not fat, is the real villain that steals our health and sabotages our waistlines.

With Eat Fat, Get Thin, I’m determined to separate fat from fiction by giving you the skinny on fats – what to eat and how to use dietary fats to regain your health and ideal body weight. Eating lots of the right fat will make you thin. The right fats increase metabolism, stimulate fat burning, cut hunger, optimize your cholesterol profile, and can reverse type 2 diabetes and reduce your risk for heart disease.

 Sugar, not fat, makes you fat. The average American eats 152 pounds of sugar and 146 pounds of flour that converts to sugar every year. That’s nearly a pound of sugar and flour combined every day! More sugar means your cells become numb to insulin’s “call.” Your body pumps out more and more insulin to pull your blood sugar levels back down. You can’t burn all the sugar you eat. Inevitably, your body stores it as fat, creating insulin resistance and overall metabolic havoc among other mayhem.

Dietary fat is more complex than sugar. There are some 257 names for sugar, but despite very minor variations, they all create the same damage. In other words, sugar is sugar is sugar; it all wreaks havoc on your health. Fat is more complex. We have saturated, monounsaturated, polyunsaturated, and even trans fats, not to mention subcategories within each group. Some fats are good; others neutral; and yes, a few are bad.

Low-fat diets tend to be heart-unhealthy, high-sugar diets. When people eat less fat, they tend to eat more starch or sugar instead, and this actually increases their levels of the small, dense cholesterol that causes heart attacks. In fact, studies show 75 percent of people who end up in the emergency room with a heart attack have normal overall cholesterol levels. But what they do have is pre-diabetes or type 2 diabetes.

Saturated fat is not your enemy. A review of all the research on saturated fat published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found no correlation between saturated fat and heart disease. As with all fats, quality becomes key here. The fats in a fast-food bacon feedlot cheeseburger will have an entirely different effect than saturated fat in coconut oil. Let’s stop classifying it all as the same.

Some fats are unhealthy. They include trans fat and inflammatory vegetable oils. Unfortunately, these fats have increased in our diet as they make us fatter and contribute to inflammation, which plays a role in nearly every chronic disease on the planet.

Everyone benefits from more omega 3s. About 99 percent of Americans are deficient in these critical fats. Ideal ways to get them include eating wild or sustainably raised cold-water fish (at least two servings weekly), buying omega-3 rich eggs, and taking an omega-3 supplement twice a day with breakfast and dinner that contains 500 – 1,000 milligrams of omega-3 fats (a ratio of roughly 300 EPA to 200 DHA is ideal). You’ll find several quality professional omega 3 supplements in my store.

Eating fat can make you lean. Healthy cell walls made from high-quality fats are better able to metabolize insulin, which keeps blood sugar better regulated. Without proper blood sugar control, the body socks away fat for a rainy day. The right fats also increase fat burning, cut your hunger, and reduce fat storage.  Eating the right fats makes you lose weight, while eating excess sugar and the WRONG types of fat make you fat.

Good fats can heal. I have many diabetic patients whose health improves when I get them on diet that’s higher in fat. I had one patient with high cholesterol who could not lose weight, so I bumped up her healthy fat content to 70 percent. (I don’t recommend this for most patients; hers was an extreme case.) Her cholesterol plummeting from 300 to 190, her triglycerides dropped 200 points, and she lost 20 stubborn pounds that she couldn’t ever lose before!

Your brain is about 60 percent fat. Of that percentage, the biggest portion comes from the omega-3 fat called docosahexaenoic acid (DHA). Your brain needs DHA to spark communication between cells. Easy access to high-quality fat boosts cognition, happiness, learning, and memory. In contrast, studies link a deficiency of omega-3 fatty acids to depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia.

Your body gives you signs whether or not you are getting enough quality fat. The higher-quality the fat, the better your body will function. That’s because the body uses the fat you eat to build cell walls. You have more than 10 trillion cells in your body, and every single one of them needs high-quality fat. How do you know if your cells are getting the fats they need? Your body sends signals when it’s not getting enough good fats. Warning signs include:

Dry, itchy, scaling, or flaking skin

Soft, cracked, or brittle nails

Hard earwax

Tiny bumps on the backs of your arms or torso

Achy, stiff joints

I eat fat with every meal, and I’ve never felt better. The right fats can improve your mood, skin, hair, and nails, while protecting you against Type 2 diabetes, dementia, cancer, and much more.

 Among my favorite sources of fat include:

 Avocados

Nuts—walnuts, almonds, pecans, macadamia nuts, but not peanuts (one study showed a handful of nuts a day reduced death from all causes by 20 percent)

Seeds—pumpkin, sesame, chia, hemp

Fatty fish, including sardines, mackerel, herring, and wild salmon that are rich in omega-3 fats

Extra virgin olive oil (a large study showed that those who consumed 1 liter a week reduced heart attacks by 30 percent)

Grass-fed or sustainably raised animal products (I recommend the Environmental Working Group’s Meat Eater’s Guide to eating good quality animal products that are good for you and good for the planet).

Extra virgin coconut butter, which is a great plant-based source of saturated fat that has many benefits.  It fuels your mitochondria, is anti-inflammatory, and  doesn’t cause problems with your cholesterol.  In fact, it may help resolve them.  

Forgive Because God Forgave You

Forgiveness.  Now that can be a tough one.  We talked about this a couple of weeks ago in Wednesday Night Bible Study.

  If I’ve done this article before, please forgive me!  Actually, if you are like me, I need reminded.  Sometimes, more than I care to admit.    We are wronged in some way, our hearts are broken, someone really hurt us or our family!  I can deal with a lot, but when someone hurts my family – all bets are off!  It’s like this nagging pain in your gut that just keeps growing.  Have you ever made bread and watched the dough rise?  That kind of the way unforgiveness is.  It starts out small and next thing you know, it has doubled in size.    And you know what?  It is unlikely that the person you are not able to forgive, knows or even cares.  So guess who is getting hurt… again.  The pain and bitterness continue to grow until something has to give and that something is probably going to be the one who just can’t let it go.  We shouldn’t be in the judging business, but God is.  Forgive and move on, let God take of the rest.

 

Forgive Because God Forgave You

Rick Warren

 “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32 NIV)

We will all be hurt in this life. Many times we’ll be hurt intentionally by what people say about us or what people do to us. In fact, any time we read the word “forgiveness” we instantly call to mind certain heartaches, hurts, and problems from our past. The memories are still fresh because we’ve been hurt very deeply.

Because of how deeply we’ve been hurt, it’s hard to consider forgiving the perpetrators. But the Bible gives us one very important reason we need to forgive.

We forgive others because God forgave us.

The Bible says in Ephesians 4:32, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (NIV). Ponder how much God has forgiven you, and it’ll cause you to be more forgiving of those who have hurt you.

The converse is also true. If you don’t feel forgiven, you’ll have a hard time forgiving others. If you typically have a tough time forgiving others, you may not truly feel forgiven yourself.

Think of it like this: God has completely wiped your sin slate clean because of what Jesus Christ did on the cross. All of the things you deserve to be paid back for have been cleared away because God has forgiven you. Own that statement for yourself, and you’ll find it increasingly tough to hold a grudge against someone else.

Remember this: No matter what anyone does to you, you’ll never have to forgive any other person more than God has already forgiven you.

 

Four Secrets to Answered Prayer

It seems that there are days when no matter how we try, we don’t want to pray, we don’t want to rely on God, we don’t want to DO anything…  we just want things to be right.  Babies shouldn’t be sick, friends shouldn’t be sick, people shouldn’t be sad and the world shouldn’t be such a mess.  Where is God in all of this anyway?

 Well, God is where He has been for all eternity.  And all of those things going on, are just a moment in time.  There have been a couple of times that I have begged God to just end this charade and move us on to our eternal home.  Fortunately, God’s plan is always better than mine.  Even though our lives in this earthly realm could end at any minute, there are still so many who aren’t ready for that to happen.  Despite the fact that they may have totally turned their backs and hardened their hearts towards God, He still wants them.  That’s how much He loves us.  No matter what the outcome, His love is unconditional.  He wants you and He wants me.  He also wants the sinner down the street and the murderer in the prison.  I know I will never be worthy of His love and sacrifice, but I also know I will continue to try to make amends for my unworthiness.

 That’s how much He loves us, with all of our dents and rips, He stands waiting – for us.

Pray Unceasingly!

 

In His light,

Lois

Four Secrets to Answered Prayer

Rick Warren

 “Then [Nehemiah] said, ‘O Lord, God of heaven, the great and awesome God who keeps his covenant of unfailing love with those who love him and obey his commands, listen to my prayer! … I confess that we have sinned against you .… Please remember what you told your servant Moses: “If you are unfaithful to me, I will scatter you among the nations. But if you return to me and obey my commands and live by them, then even if you are exiled to the ends of the earth, I will bring you back to the place I have chosen for my name to be honored” …. Please grant me success today by making the king favorable to me. Put it into his heart to be kind to me.’” (Nehemiah 1:5-11 NLT, second edition)

Here are four secrets to answered prayer from the life of Nehemiah:

Base your request on God’s character. Pray like you know God will answer you: “I’m expecting you to answer this prayer because of who you are. You are a faithful God. You are a great God. You are a loving God. You are a wonderful God. You can handle this problem, God!”

Confess the sins you’re aware of. After Nehemiah based his prayer on who God is, he confessed his sins. He says, “We have sinned.” It wasn’t Nehemiah’s fault that Israel went into captivity. He wasn’t even born when it happened, and he was most likely born in captivity. Yet he’s including himself in the national sins. He says, “I’ve been a part of the problem.”

Claim the promises of God. Nehemiah prays to the Lord, saying, “I want you to remember what you told your servant Moses.” Can you imagine telling God to “remember”? Nehemiah reminds God of a promise he made to the nation of Israel. In effect, he prays, “God, you warned through Moses that if we were unfaithful, we would lose the land of Israel. But you also promised that if we repent, you’d give it back to us.” Does God have to be reminded? No. Does he forget what he’s promised? No. Then why do we do this? Because it helps us remember what God has promised.

Be specific in what you ask for. If you want specific answers to prayer, then make specific requests. If your prayers consist of general requests, how will you know if they’re answered? Nehemiah was not hesitant to pray for success. He’s very bold in his praying. Have you ever prayed, “Lord, make me successful?” If you haven’t, why haven’t you? What is the alternative? A failure?

Is it OK to ask God to make you successful? It all depends on your definition of success! I believe a good definition of success is “fulfilling God’s purpose for my life in faith, love, and the power of the Holy Spirit and expecting the results from God.” That is a worthy life objective that you should be able to pray for with confidence.

Consider this: If you can’t ask God to make you a success at what you’re doing, you should be doing something else. God doesn’t want you to waste your life.

Progress, Not Perfection

With each new day, we have a new chance.  A new chance to eat better, to act better, to BE better!   I used to wonder why, since God created us and made us all that we are, then why didn’t He just make us perfect to start with and we wouldn’t have to go through all that we do.  Stop and think about that.  What would the world be like if everyone was perfect?  I don’t believe freewill would be showing its face and it would probably be like a world of robots.  There would be nothing to work towards, nothing to attain.  More importantly, I believe that God wants us to come to Him and love Him because we WANT to, not because of pre-programming.

 So, in your imperfection, work toward that goal.  The last sentence in Matthew 5 says “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”   He WANTS us to be perfect, as our heavenly Father is?  That’s a pretty lofty goal for me…   But even in my imperfection, I know one day in eternity, I will attain that ultimate goal and finally be exactly what God always knew I could be.  Meanwhile, I will rely on His grace and mercy as I travel through this earthly life, making progress until that day of perfection comes.

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

“With every New Year, comes new promises we make to ourselves. We often promise to eat healthier, exercise more or to be better organized. Instead of self-promises, let’s make some promises to God together – a promise prayer to foster hope and a renewed spirit in each of us. 

God, we promise to embrace life together and offer encouragement to each other. Let us persevere with a focus on the race marked for us. Help us to fix our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfector of faith (Hebrews 12:1-2).

We promise to be strong and courageous. Lord, we cast our worries at your feet. We know you will take care of them. We know we have nothing to fear, but have everything to hope for in Christ.

We promise to trust in you, God. We pray that you fill our hearts with joy and peace and that the Holy Spirit overflows our soul with hope.

God, we praise you for your steadfast love and for creating us in your own image. It was you, of course, who gave us the most precious promise of all – the promise of eternal life, a new life in Christ.

Amen.”  (A Promise Prayer – Dayspring)

Progress, Not Perfection

 When your progress wavers, pay attention. What causes setbacks with your food or fitness? Is it when you get too busy? Is it when you don’t get enough sleep? Notice patterns, cycles, and reactions—not to make yourself feel guilty, but so you have valuable information from which to make healthier decisions in the future.

 We all make mistakes. When we track our victories as well as setbacks, we see that God’s grace is sufficient, and his love is bigger than any of our weaknesses. If you have a bad day with any of the Essentials, don’t be upset; instead, view that as a great opportunity to learn to use as insight for tomorrow.

 One of the best ways to make steady progress is to track your progress. (For ideas, go to page 176 in The Daniel Plan book.) To help you make consistent daily, weekly, and monthly progress, monitoring and/or tracking your efforts is important. In fact, in multiple studies, individuals who monitored their exercise habits significantly improved their behavior and likelihood of accomplishing their goals.

 When it comes to food, a choice as simple as smart snacking can show you how daily progress builds momentum and leads to long-term success. Smart snacking means choosing something with protein and avoiding sugar. Here are some great grab-and-go ideas:

 ·       Stock your fridge with healthy dips (hummus, guacamole), low-sugar fruits, Greek yogurt, and hard-boiled eggs.

 ·       Carry a small cooler and ice packs in your car for food items that need to stay cold.

 ·       Toss together a bean salad with olive oil, herbs, salt, pepper, and spices such as cumin, onion, or shallot.

 ·       Stock mini-packets of nut butters.

 ·       Stock healthy jerky (salmon, turkey, grass-fed beef, bison, organic, without added nitrates or MSG).

 ·       Make organic air-popped popcorn.

 ·       Drink plenty of water. Sometimes you are dehydrated, not hungry.

 As you focus on progress, not perfection, you will be equipped to run the race God has set for you. Trust him, and trust the friends who are with you on this journey. Be brave enough to be authentic—to reveal your issues and graciously accept the weaknesses of others. Foster a community where every friend is not afraid to ask for help—starting with yourself.

GARLICKY CHICKEN OVER SPAGHETTI SQUASH

This has become one of my favorite recipes!

GARLICKY CHICKEN OVER SPAGHETTI SQUASH

PREP TIME 20 mins; COOK TIME 1 hour; TOTAL TIME 1 hour 20 mins

Serves: 4

1 lb. thin sliced chicken breast

Salt, pepper

¼ cup olive oil

6 roma plum tomatoes, diced

5 cloves garlic, minced

one handful fresh basil, chopped

olives

¼ cup butter

1 spaghetti squash

 

Preheat your oven to 375°F.

Cut you squash in half, remove seeds and strings with a spoon and brush the insides generously with olive oil. Bake face down in a baking dish for 45 minutes – 1 hour.

Meanwhile, cover and pound chicken breasts with a meat tenderizer. Then sprinkle with salt and pepper.

Heat oil in a large skillet Add the chicken and brown about 3 minutes on each side. Turn off the flame. Remove chicken to a plate, cover and set aside.

Then add the diced tomatoes to the oil in the skillet, bring to a boil and simmer about 30 minutes. The tomatoes will break down as they simmer. Stir occasionally, crushing the tomatoes with a fork.

Add garlic and butter and stir.

Add the chicken back in stir and heat through. Finally stir in the basil and olives.

By now your squash should be done and cool enough to handle. Scrape the spaghetti like strands from your squash and divide onto individual plates. Top with chicken and sauce.

Serve immediately.

The Key to a Balanced Life: Jesus

If you are on Facebook, or even if you are just out and about, you have probably noticed that we live in a very “me” oriented world.  It’s very easy to get there.  We worry about what we look like, and what we wear, we encourage our children and grandchildren to believe they are absolutely perfect and without fault.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with any of these things in themselves.  It’s when the world begins to revolve around what you look like or what you wear or when your children and grandchildren begin to care about nothing but themselves, feeling no accountability or responsibility for what they do, that it becomes a problem.

 What if, just for today, we focus on God, our neighbor, the widow that you met who has no family and is all alone, or the grandparents who are raising their grandchildren with no help from the parents?  What if, just for today, we focus on helping these people, even if it’s just a kind word or a hug.  What if we take the kids to a food pantry or soup kitchen and let them help serve others.  Maybe, by taking the focus off of “me”, we will find our life becoming more satisfying and balanced, therefore accomplishing the true happiness we could never find with our previous mindset!

 God is so GOOD!  He knows our needs, even better than we do and He has a plan.  This is a brand new year and today is a brand new day, a fresh start.  It’s a blank slate, what will you do with it to make it count?

“No matter what you’re going to face this next week, you’re not going to face it alone. God is with you, he is in you, and he is for you.”
– Rick Warren

         Pray Unceasingly!

 

 In His light,

Lois

 

The Key to a Balanced Life: Jesus

By Rick Warren

 “Seek first God’s kingdom and what God wants. Then all your other needs will be met as well.” (Matthew 6:33 NCV)

 If you want to live a truly balanced life, you can only look at one person in all of history as a model: Jesus. If you put him at the center of your life, your life will be more balanced.

Think of your life like a wheel. The center of the wheel is a hub. All of the spokes of your life (which represent your relationships, your family, your career, your goals, etc.) come from that hub. We all build our lives around some sort of hub. The question is, what will be your hub? Will it be your family? Will it be your career? Will it be money?

Or will it be Jesus?

How do you know what you’re building your life around?  Take a look at whatever you think about the most. That’s what is driving you.

The center of your life is critical to developing a balanced life. A solid center leads to a solid life. A weak, flimsy center leads to a weak life. When I hear people tell me that their lives are coming unglued, it usually means one thing: They have a faulty center. Something other than God has taken priority in their lives.

Not only does the hub create stability, but it also controls and influences everything else about your life. Whatever you put at the center of your life will also be your source of power. The power of a wheel always emanates from the center outward — never the other way around.

Make Jesus the center of your life, and he’ll provide the stability, control, and power you need for your life. The Bible says, “Seek first God’s kingdom and what God wants. Then all your other needs will be met as well” (Matthew 6:33 NCV).

Don’t worry about making Jesus first in your life. Put him in the center of your life. Let him direct your life, influence it, empower it, and give it stability.

Do that and all the other areas of your life — from your family to your career to your goals — will find balance in Jesus.

Foods That Heal: So What Should We Eat?

Christmas has come and gone, now once we get through the New Year, life can get back in the familiar groove.  You remember, the groove where we can concentrate on what we are doing to our bodies and our brains!

 Let’s face it, every one of us knows what we should and shouldn’t eat.  Still, it often takes a life changing incident to really shake us up and listen to our bodies and their reaction to our lifestyle.  It may be cancer, a heart attack or diabetes, or maybe just looking in the mirror and realizing that if we want to see our grandchildren grow up, we need to at least make the effort to become healthier.  Each of these issues are affected by our lifestyle and diet.  Still… there are all of these temptations everywhere we go.

 Maybe it’s time for baby steps again.  Do you need to forego the cappuccino or the soda that “gets you going” in the morning?  Can you substitute a bright, crisp piece of fruit for the cookies?  My goal is to permanently eliminate anything white.  Be it sugar, bread, rice or potatoes, I want to substitute something healthier and less refined.   You will find that the little things make a difference in how you feel physically AND how you feel about yourself.  We can do this!  Nourish your body!

Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 

Foods That Heal: So What Should We Eat?o

 What is food? Nourishment?  A source of energy or calories?  A delightful pleasure?

Yes, it can be all of those things. But as a doctor who has dedicated his career to studying how food affects the body and contributes to or prevents disease, Dr. Hyman has a slightly different take on food:

Food is medicine.

Food has the power to heal us. It is the most potent tool we have to help prevent and treat many of our chronic diseases—including diabetes and obesity. Truly, what you put on your fork dictates whether you are sick or well, slim or fat, depleted or energized.

Food is medicine. It is the most powerful tool we have to combat chronic disease.

How does food do all this? Through the groundbreaking science known as nutrigenomics. The molecules in your food do much more than provide fuel for your body. They provide instructions that tell every cell in your body what to do every moment. More than 95 percent of chronic illness is not related to your genes, but to what those genes are exposed to in your lifetime. We call that the exposome.

The exposome is the sum of everything you eat, breathe, drink, think, and feel, plus the toxins in our environment and even the 100 trillion bacteria that live inside your gut. This is good news because it means that you have almost complete control over your health. And the most important thing you do every single day to interact with your genes is eat.

So the next time you put something on your fork, imagine what your genes might feel. Would they like that extra large soda or cheesy corn chips, or would they prefer some sweet blueberries or sautéed broccoli with garlic and olive oil?

We want to teach you how to treat your body respect and kindness. We will teach you what foods to choose to nourish yourself and which ones to avoid. Most of all, we will show you how to create a nurturing, peaceful relationship with food and cooking that will automatically lead to weight loss, radiant health, and an overall sense of well-being.

The Scriptures teach us how to live and love fully. But somehow we skip over the parts that instruct us to honor the vessel of the Holy Spirit, our body. Being in a food coma from eating sugar and junk food, having your brain chemistry hijacked by hyper-processed, hyper-palatable, hyper-addictive foods prevents you from fully inhabiting your body and your mind. If the food you are eating is making you sick and unfocused and makes you so sluggish that if you happen to get the urge to exercise you lie down until it goes away, living a fully engaged and God-honoring life is difficult.

Real food has the power to give you your life back and more fully engage in the purpose for your life. The reason to do it is not to fit in your jeans or look good in a dress, but to be awake to the beauty and miracle of life, to be able to live with purpose, to love, serve, connect, and celebrate the gifts God has given you.

If you nourish your body with high-quality ingredients from real food, not only will you increase your energy, lose weight, and reverse many chronic illnesses, but you will also feel lighter and more motivated to exercise, your mood will lift, and your brain will have better clarity, allowing you to clear out the debris in the way of your relationships with others and God.

Five Ways To Never Be Stressed Again

And here we are…  Christmas week.  Hopefully, the shopping is done, the packages are wrapped, (well, most of them at least) and dinner plans are made.  Piece of cake, right?  That is, unless the shopping ISN’T done, obviously the packages aren’t wrapped and dinner?  Not a clue.  Welcome to stress.  Our society is very commercialized and we have “obligations” that we feel like we have to fulfill.

 If this seems redundant, well, I guess it is, but Christmas is the most stressful holiday we have.  I understand completely.  I have spent days (and weeks) worrying about what to buy and what to cook.  I have worried to the point that there was no joy left…  The “reason for the season” was diminished to the point of becoming non-existent because I was afraid someone might not like their gift.

 No matter what we do or where we go, there is only ONE GIFT that we should worry about and that’s just a matter of accepting it.  The perfect gift of Jesus Christ.  The gift that gives us joy, love and eternity!  So no matter what goes under the tree or on the table, know you are loved unconditionally.  Loved so much that God sent His son as our gift for redemption.  Take a deep breath and let there be peace, love and joy in your Christmas and every day.

Merry Christmas!

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 

Five Ways To Never Be Stressed Again

Mark Hyman, MD

 Everybody feels stress and knows it intimately, but very few of us think about what stress actually is.

Stress is a thought. That’s it. No more, no less. If that’s true, then we have complete control over stress, because it’s not something that happens to us but something that happens in us.
The dictionary definition of stress is, “bodily or mental tension resulting from factors that tend to alter an existent equilibrium.” It is your thoughts out of balance.

The medical definition of stress is, “the perception of a real or imagined threat to your body or your ego.” It could be a tiger chasing you or your belief that your spouse is mad at you (even if he or she is not). Whether it is real or imagined, when you perceive something as stressful, it creates the same response in the body.

A cascade of adrenaline, cortisol, and other stress hormones floods your system, raising your heart rate, increasing your blood pressure, making your blood more likely to clot, damaging your brain’s memory center, increasing belly fat storage, and generally wreaking havoc on your body.

The operative word here about stress is that it is a perception, also known as a thought or point of view. There are objective stressors, to be sure—war, death of loved ones, financial troubles, starvation, dental work. But how these affect us determines our body’s stress response. Imagine Woody Allen and James Bond, each with a gun pointed at his head—same external stressor but entirely different responses.

When I was very sick with chronic fatigue, barely able to work, a single father with two kids, thinking I had to go on disability, I worried constantly. I couldn’t sleep and everything seemed stressful. Then, a wise man told me I had to stop worrying. I argued with him strenuously, providing a comprehensive list of all the real external events that were stressful to me. He just kept repeating that worrying was toxic; he said, what really mattered was how I viewed the situation, and he kept telling me I just needed to stop worrying.

And slowly, very slowly, I trained myself to watch my thoughts, my perceptions, and when a stressful thought came into my head, I stopped, took a deep breath, and just let go. It’s like a muscle—it gets stronger the more you use it, but if you let go, it relaxes.

But of course, life takes over and things happen, all the “D’s:” divorce, death, deadlines, demands, dumb thoughts, and dumb schedules. And as anyone does, I get sucked in to negative thinking, which creates stress in my body. My sleep gets interrupted, my muscles get tight, my mood gets cranky, but then I breathe and remember that stress is all in my head.  We get so attached to our way of thinking, to our beliefs and attitudes about the way things should be or shouldn’t be, that it makes us sick.

This doesn’t mean that I don’t respond to injustice or experience intense feelings of joy, happiness, sadness, loss, or pain. I do. But I try just to be fully in them when they come, then experience the next moment, then the next and the next, and just show up with my whole self with love and attention. That’s the only thing I can do.

Most people, when they look at my life, think I’m crazy and wonder why I’m not more stressed—running a medical practice; writing books and blogs; teaching all over the world; working on health policy; volunteering in Haiti, churches, and orphanages; being a father, son, brother, partner, friend, boss, and more. But it’s actually quite simple. I don’t worry about things much. I simply wake up and do the next thing as best I can.

And when things get out of control, which they do, I simply make a gentle U-turn. It’s like a GPS for my soul. Your GPS doesn’t yell at you and call you stupid or judge you for taking a wrong turn. In the sweetest voice imaginable, the GPS reminds you to take the next possible U-turn.

Each of us has to find out how to make our own U-turn. There are some wonderful ways I have discovered that work very well for me!

Don’t Worry, Get Healthy

Sadly, Christmas is one of the most stressful times of the year for many people.  Sometimes, we take our families, our relationships, our homes and ALL of blessings for granted.  There are some though, who have no family, no relationship, no home and no love.  They may feel there is no hope or purpose to their life.   It is a blessing to be able to share some of what God has so generously allowed us to have with others.  More than that, the sharing of time, a kind word, a hug and sharing how much God loves them can be life changing for them.  

Others may have many material blessings, but without knowing Jesus as their personal Savior, it means nothing.  They may be angry, unfulfilled and determined to undermine any relationship they may have.  Even then, if at all possible, time, a kind word, a hug and sharing how much God loves them can plant the seed that can change their life.  Even if they reject you, let them see the love in you and pray.  Prayer is all powerful!  Be the change you want to see in the world.

 Our God is mighty and strong!  Give Him the praise and ask for intercession in the lives of those who desperately need Him now and forever.

 Pray Unceasingly!

 In His light,

Lois

 Don’t Worry, Get Healthy

RickWarren

 “When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.” Isaiah 43:2 (NLT)

 You have three basic choices when it comes to the stress in your life: You can worry, you can ignore your stress, or you can relax and trust God.

The Bible says in Psalm 116:7, “I said to myself, ‘Relax, because the LORD takes care of you’” (NCV). You can’t trust God and worry at the same time.

That’s not just good spiritual wisdom from the Lord; it’s wisdom for your health as well. The Bible also says in Proverbs 14:30 that a heart at peace is a healthy heart: “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones” (NIV).

It’s not just what you eat that destroys your health — it’s what eats you! You can have the best health plan around — eat fresh, healthy, organic, and in proper portions — but if you’re resentful against someone in your life or worry about tomorrow, your health will suffer.

Worry is like a poison or a fire. It burns you up inside. I’ll never forget watching an old episode of “Colombo” when Johnny Cash played the bad guy. When he finally got caught, he said, “I’m so glad I got caught, because the guilt was killing me.”

I can’t tell you how many reports I’ve read of doctors who said that most people could leave the hospital today if they could get rid of their worries, guilt, and resentment.